My Story

I never thought I’d end up in the kind of relationship I have now.

For a long time, I didn’t even think I wanted one. I was single for many years—not because I couldn’t meet anyone, but because I genuinely couldn’t imagine being in a relationship where I could be my whole self. Everything I’d seen growing up made it look like sacrifice, conflict, and letting your boundaries get crossed to keep the peace. No thanks.

But then something shifted.

A few years before meeting Mykal, I hit a wall. I was a high-achiever, a people-pleaser, and constantly running on empty—until my body finally said no more and I developed a migraine that never went away. (Who knew that was even a thing!) I tried everything. Countless doctors, neurologists, alternative therapies. Nothing worked until I eventually discovered somatic therapy.

Learning to slow down, listen to my body, and actually honour my own needs didn’t just help me heal physically—it taught me how to connect in a completely different way. I learned how to stay with myself, set boundaries, and speak my truth without apology.

And that changed everything.

When I met Mykal, I brought this new way of being with me. Together, we threw out the rulebook and built a relationship from scratch—one where we could be radically honest, sexually adventurous, and deeply supportive of each other’s growth. No pretending. No battling each other. Just two humans choosing each other every day, on purpose.

I was so inspired by what we’d created that I knew I wanted to help others find the same. I became a certified sexologist, trained in the Somatica® Method, so I could guide people to build the kinds of relationships and intimacy that actually work for them.

Today, I work with people who are ready to get curious—about their desires, their boundaries, and their relational patterns—so they can create love that truly fits. Because when you stop following scripts that don’t serve you and start listening to yourself, relationships get so much better.

If you’re curious to explore what’s possible in your own relationships, I’d love to meet you. Book a free 15-minute connection call to see if we’re a good fit.